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 28 Weeks Later (2007)
IMDB rating: 7.90
Plot: Seven months after the rage virus has annihilated the British isles, the US army declares that the war against infection has been won, and that the reconstruction of the country can begin. In the first wave of returning refugees, a family is reunited—but one of them unwillingly carries a terrible secret. The virus is not yet dead, and this time, it is more dangerous than ever
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Directors: Fresnadillo Juan Carlos
Actors: Carlyle Robert,Ahmed Shahid,Morgan Garfield,El-Balawi Beans,Ryman Chris,Renner Jeremy,Perrineau Harold,Elba Idris,Horror,Sci-Fi,Thriller,
I AM GOING CRAZY! READ THIS?
It all started back to when I was 19. I was like any kid that age. And living in the city brought tons of fun along with my schooling. One night on the town, using a fake id, I ended up bringing home a girl who was a little bit older. Actually 28 at the time. Didnt remember her name the next day, but i thought hell, whatever, I am living the dream, right? Well I learned a important lesson that night. Dont do what I did. Two weeks later she shows up at my door to inform me that she is pregnant and I am without a doubt the father. Of course I didnt believe her. It sent me into shambles tho. My life did a huge 180 degree turn and for those who havent experienced something like that you really CANNOT imagine what its like. You really have no idea. So after some thought and sleepless nights, I ended up going to some pregnancy center to have a bunch of feminist doctors try and convince me that it is truely mine. Of course, I am scared and in defense mode and end up leaving that place extremely upset. I have no idea whats going on at this point. Some random lady says Im going to be a dad. WHAT THE FUCK. Any ways. its still kind of a trip. Some following days, she informs me that due to my lack of interest in the matter, she is going to move back to Kansas where her family is at for help and support raising the child. Oh ya, and she already has a 9 year old daughter who is along for the ride. Basically I said whatever, you are crazy and i dont believe you. We left on rocky terms. I wanted to put it past me, but it was eating me ALIVE. probably the longest nine months of my life. I became extremely depressed. I am 20 at that point but still am having troubles with excepting everything. Due to some unfortunate circumstances, I have found myself out in the mid west for my grandfathers funeral. I drive to Derby fucking Kansas and do a DNA test. Sure enough. I have a baby boy. It wasnt to shocking for me at that point. That was just a story to help you understand what my true problem is. I will try to make it somewhat short.
Basically, I am the type of person who REALLY wants to do the right thing. I have the inner drive to be number one dad. I want to be there. I want to be in kansas helping my baby mom raise Gavin, my son. But then I think to myself, is this just guilt? Because thinking more and more about it, its not even about gavin at this point, its about how bad i feel that she has to just raise this child all by herself and not to mention she has another child already. She is a very self motivated person (from what i know of her which isnt very much) and she has done fine on her own, but the real problem here is, is it rational of me to move across the country (im in portland or) and try to get some job in some town where i know no one and nothing, and make a feeble attempt at a dad. Im fucking 21 years old, have no idea what i am going to do career wise and have only a little schooling. I think alot about this, but no one is in a situation like me that i know so its hard taking advice from people who dont know shit about how it feels to be in my boots. I want to help out, but i dont think its the best idea to make some crazy move like that. I have such torn feelings it haunts me everyday. I wish I was sterile haha. Dont get me wrong, he is a very beautiful baby and I know that I will not leave him. But im thinking in the now when i should be thinking in the future. I want to make sure his entire life is fulfilling, not just right now. I dunno.
If you have any questions, please write back i would love feed back, unless you are some crazy feminist that is going to be a bitch because I have dealt with plenty of you folks already and its just plain old. But if you are a person who has been in a similar situation, I would REALLY LOVE to hear from you being as i am going crazy. Thanks!
Evan
wow love, first of all im from kansas so this grabbed my attention anywayz…but second is i understand how you fell and how she feels ….i would totally communicate with her let her know you are sorry for denying something you were wrong about and you were just scared…and get a feel out for if its imperitive at this very moment to move blindly and risk the weakness of retaining life or wait till you can plan for such a move…but either way really getting across the love and sacrifice for your child..cause she has made it and you are willing to is important=) good luck darlin and ur baby too<3
chrissyaquarius1979 | Feb 05, 2010
I am a 19 year old with 2 daughters. One is 3 and another one is 10 months old. Me and my bf have been together for 5 years now. When we found out that i was pregnant we didn’t know what to do. He is a year younger than me and i knew that most young fathers don’t stick around. He did. My girls are both Daddy’s girls. I am not going to sit here and tell you what to do, but he knew what it was like to grow up with a Dad that didn’t stick it out with his mother. And he didn’t want to be like that. We live together and live like we are 2 30 year olds. Having a baby is the most wonderful thing you can ever do, im sure you heard this but just think, when he is 6 years old and he asks his mother where his Dad is and why everyone else in his class has a Daddy and why his isnt around, what is she going to tell him? I understand what you are going through as much as i can and i hope you listen to your heart. If nothing at least send him some birthday cards…..
GOOD LUCK
MadsionKay | Feb 05, 2010
Evan,
In order to be a good dad to your son, you first must get your life together. Go to college, trade school, whatever, and start on your path to being a responsible adult. (not saying you are irresponsible)
You should not be feeling guilt over her having another child, you are assuming she has raised that child by herself. You are also assuming she has not gone on with her life and met or married another man.
You yourself state that you don’t know her very well. She was 28 to your 19. It almost sounds like you were taken advantage of.
Yes, it IS irrational to pull up stakes and move cross country when you don’t have a job lined up and you don’t even know if she wants you to be a part of her and your child’s life.
This is my advice to you. Get YOUR life together before you try to enter your sons life. In the meantime, you can set up a trust fund or college fund for him, contribute to it each month knowing that one day it will be going to him.
Lastly, give yourself a break. It is not many men that would want to do what you are wanting to do. You might even change your mind in a few years. You sound like a guy who wants to do the right thing. But you MUST take care of yourself first, or you will be worthless to your child.
Noreen | Feb 05, 2010
OMG! let me tell you scary story… im not like the other girls trust me..
and this is the worst place to ask cuz some ladies can act really stupid
and guys too but no one will understand what your going thru so let me give you some
choices and if you like one good, i havent been in your situation but im 22 and i got pregnant
my bf is a loving and the best thing but right now it was not the moment, so people
are going to tell you that you are old enough and you should use protections stupid things
like that but dont lisen to them, ok so i got an abortion it was sad but i had to do it.. cuz
what kind of mother could i be with no college? no money? no car? no house? not emotional prepared and the most important thing with out a full day father.. cuz my bf lives in other city!
So why dont you just try to relax ( i now is HARD)
then, are u in college? go to college and had your career
in the meen time get a job, it doesent care if you dont win
a lot of it at some small job, just try to get some and give it
to her, so she can buy milk, pampers, clothes, pay rent of
some things that she need, talk to her and let her now everything
that you are willing to do for the baby, always have comunication
tell her that you dont have anything but you are going to work for it..
ask her for some time, get everything fix from your city if is more comfort
for you.. and send her everything she needs..
dont worry Evan, everything its goin to be fine trust me..
im here for you ok? so let me know if u had other QS..
hope this work
Mariana! | Feb 05, 2010
Do you know, like blood work 100% that is your son? I’m more then happy to hear that you want to be there like a good day, but in our society people do move and have to do what is right for them. If this is indeed your son you need to take her to court and set up your rights as a parent. You shouldnt have to relocate or anything, but be there for him, im not sure how it works when parents live in 2 different states…
Jobs, money and stuff dont compare to just having dad in your life, perhaps you can even get 50/50 custody of your son? These are things to looking into.. i’m so proud that you want to have that with him, just find out your rights as a parent.
Joz | Feb 05, 2010